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My Mom Thinks Facebook is Stupid, But She is Joining

My mom is joining Facebook.  For years she’s said it was stupid.  But now that she’s bought the new iPhone 4, she’s changing her mind.  She says she isn’t going to post anything, but she’s tired of not getting the pictures of family events or being able to keep up with everyone.   The way our family communicates has changed and she is tired of being on the outside looking in.

A friend of mine was over the other day and he was on Twitter.  I didn’t know he used Twitter.  I knew he was on, because I follow him, but I had NEVER seen a tweet from him.  He said he uses Twitter as a his news reader.  He uses his Twitter feed like one scans newspaper headlines.  He said he looks at it every morning, mostly for sports, news and work.

There has been a debate brewing lately that the web is dead, and that mobile is taking over.  I am not sure I buy into that statement just yet, but I do believe something unique is happening, and that is the utility demanded of the Internet, social networking and social media users is going up.  Users are wanting more than just the proverbial “hang-out” place from their social networks. They want utility.

I wrote about the utility of social networks a while back.  You can read it here.  Since I’ve seen written it, I think the trend is gaining momentum.   The fastest growing site on the internet is Groupon, more and more people are joining Facebook not to meet old friends, but to stay in touch with family.  It’s a new communication medium.   Who sends pictures in email or in the mail anymore.

Social networking is changing, the web is changing because like most innovation we find more convenient ways to use it.  Overtime innovation gives way to utilization.  We become more efficient.  The use cases grow.  The novelty wears off and we want greater return.  I think the web and social networking are going through that transformation right now.  How do I know this, because my Mom is on Facebook.

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  • Anonymous

    Oh yeh, the web is dead, email is dead, direct mail is dead, newspapers are dead, TV is dead, movies are dead, radio is dead etc, etc.

    Old mediums don’t die (well occasionally they do like the telex), usually the new medium just gets incorporated into the “family” of communication options.

    Oh, and FYI, just this week I saw a piece of research that said people trust information they get from friends first, and then from a a company (brand site) over any other online medium.

  • http://asalesguy.com Keenan

    Does that mean companies/brands are dead too? ;)

    //keenan

  • http://avc.com fredwilson

    “she was tired of missing out on the photos”

    see, i knew that facebook was just a photosharing site :)

  • http://asalesguy.com Keenan

    There is some truth to that.

  • @codyboardman

    And how do you think the WOM communication happens between friends? More often than not they happen via social networking mediums. I consider what @keenan says or @iannarino as my trusted advisors. I verify their facts but according to your example, they are the ‘friends’ i am listening too and I’ve never met them.

  • http://twitter.com/donfperkins Don F Perkins

    Hi Jim

    Good observations. I know a handful of folks who swear “they’ll never do Facebook.” They all have their reasons. It’s stupid, or they don’t have time or whatever. About once every couple weeks I get friend requests from one of them.. I think many people don’t understand it so they are reluctant to climb aboard. Interesting that the fastest growth segment for user adoption of Facebook right now is 35 and up. This is probably because younger people joined early!

    Whatever you think of Facebook, as you pointed out, the subscribers keep rolling in, and with over 500 million active users it’s safe to say it’s gaining momentum. My mom doesn’t have a computer and uses a tracfone.. so I think it’s going to be a while before she friends me. Nonetheless I think it’s important to keep an eye on Facebook. It tells us something about our culture.

    Don F Perkins

  • http://asalesguy.com Keenan

    Different people discover utility at different rates. Some people still have rotary phones.